12 Things Modern Women Must Do to Get the Love They Want

by on Mar 21, 2014

Not sure how to negotiate with the man you love?


During an exclusive interview, an internationally acclaimed love and relationship expert Lauren Frances who has been featured on BRAVO, EXTRA, VH1, OXYGEN, NBC, KTLA and FOX, and authored a wildly popular book Dating, Mating, and Manhandling: The Ornithological Guide to Men reveals 12 things women must do to win the heart of a modern man.

Times are changing. There has been a real shift in the culture about how to create romantic love. Lauren emphasized that courtship behaviors that were the norm just five short years ago have been outdated. Without modern courtship information, women are not happy with their love life. “The Rules you were raised with probably aren't working anymore” said Lauren, a relationship expert.

Lauren was inspired to write a book on Dating, Mating and Manhandling to help dating couples get powerful romantic results during the time of courtship and teach women the important relationship negotiation skills.



Lauren brought up a great observation that humans and birds have similar courtship behaviors. Understanding bird courtship behavior can help us attract and keep a receptive mate.

There are different types of courtship rituals:

  1. Singing (using your voice flirtatiously);
  2. Displays (grooming and looking your best);
  3. Dancing (being a good dancer and dancing together);
  4. Peening (close physical contact);
  5. Feeding (offering food to each other, dining together);
  6. Building (showing off your skills).

Birds really have the closest mating rituals to humans than any other species. And just like birds, “Men do not think they belong in a cage.” Lauren added.

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